Hello again! Sorry for the lag in blogging. Our days just seem to fly by lately. It's amazing how during the baseball season, our days aren't measured by weekdays and weekends, but by homestands and away series. I quite often have to be reminded of what day of the week it is. Bad. I know. Besides my lack of keeping up with the times, all is going well. Daniel is healthy (Praise God) and there are more wives here for the season now, which I am loving. My sweet friend, Neyeska, is here again this season. She was with me last year. Her and her husband are from Venezuela and being around her really motivates my desire to learn Spanish even more. Although we have the language barrier, it amazes me how we much we can relate to each other just by the fact that we are with our husbands on this crazy adventure as they chase their dreams.
Aside from Neyeska, there are also two other wives here with their children staying for the season. There's also been lots of girlfriends visiting, which I have truly enjoyed. I have really enjoyed getting to know these girls. I feel like the Lord has placed a special place in my heart for women in this crazy life of baseball. I know so many may think this life is 'fun', which it definitely is at times and I am so grateful for this path God has us on right now. But even though it is fun, it can also can be very grinding as well. Not only can it be a grind on the guys physically, but it can easily be a 'grind' emotionally for the woman on the other end.
I am extremely grateful and blessed to be able to have the opportunity to be with and travel with Daniel during the baseball season. I know many girls who are unable to. So often in baseball, the guys get all the recognition because they are the ones out there playing, but I want to recognize the woman. The cheerleaders behind the scenes. It's not always easy. We are the ones packing the house up after a move, or figuring out living situations during the season, or praying silently in the stands as our husbands hit or pitch.
I shared recently in a blog I wrote for a baseball wife site that there were times when I would question what my 'role is' in this career my husband has. The Lord has reminded me over and over again that I am my husband's "helpmate" and I proudly embrace that role. I feel honored to share in these memories we are making together while we are in the minor leagues (the terrible hotels with gum stuck on the headboards, being told by hotel maintenance that the room were staying in is haunted, being lent a car by a local fan that we had to literally pump the gas peddle 3 times and turn the key twice in order to get it started, driving on a 9 hour roadtrip with a player's parents I just met, their dog and their cat, living in basements, living with roommates, driving cross country...the list continues). It is a crazy life, but its our life (totally jacked that from TLC). Daniel makes me so proud and I will continue to support him in whatever else the Lord has in store for our future. To God be ALL the Glory!
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I love this post ..... my man is in AA with the Brewers and I can completely relate to your situation. Unfortunately, I don't live with him - but I struggle sometimes finding my niche in his life and career choice. Sometimes I feel so distanced and removed from his situation. Not only is our life at the mercy of a game I don't even play, but I'm also 10 states away from him and won't see him until September (if I'm lucky). I have to constantly remind myself that I am his safe haven away from that sport. We rarely talk about baseball because that is all he ever talks about with everyone else. I truly believe I am the one person in his life who doesn't discuss the sport with him whenever they talk. I am his "helpmate." I love that term, despite the fact it brings back images of repressed 50's housewives vacuuming in pearls. I don't think people understand how big of a role girlfriends and wives play in these men's lives. It is a full-time job supporting a man going after his dream - and especially so when his dream is so incredibly demanding. Anyway, I know I don't know you - but I've found so much comfort in other wives and their stories. I just wanted to reach out. Good luck to both of you guys this season - you, and the rest of the baseball wives, are in my prayers. We need all the help/support we can get!
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